This file will cause you to go limp and soft any time you are getting close to having an orgasm. Whether you’re alone or with someone else, the closer you get to having an orgasm, the softer your penis will become until it becomes completely flaccid. Once you lose your erection, it will be impossible for you to orgasm, so you’ll find yourself unable to have an orgasm no matter how much you try. The more you listen, the more permanent the effects will be.