It's okay to be a loser. It's okay to be yourself. You've tried so hard to be different. And that just brought rejection and pain. You don't need a relationship. You don't need self control. You can indulge in all those kinky pleasures you enjoy so much. You can let yourself become addicted. You can take pleasure from the shame. You can spend your whole life masturbating. It's okay to do that. It's really okay. 
More gentle brainwashing to help you accept your pitiful state.